Since there is no long term, I have no reason to exclude myself to any one girl.
Chapter One: Introduction
Part 4: Bad Boys, Alphas, Assholes, Nice Guys and Players
“Badboys” are pussies, not alpha males. The easiest way to tell if a man is alpha is to observe if he has the respect and cooperation of other men, especially other men in general (i.e. he has power and respect in society, not just socially). You very rarely see a “badboy” meet these criteria. When you do, it’s usually an alpha fooling around to get laid.
Alpha males don’t usually get the chicks. They get the best chick and she tends to stick around and beat the shit out of any other girls who come around.
The multiple sex partner thing is the omega male’s gig. You usually see all sorts of deviant behavior going on in addition to this. Although he is getting laid, he is powerless in relationships as well as every other aspect of his life. No one respects him, not even the psycho chicks who screw him.
Alpha’s get snapped up quickly. Beta males screw a lot early in life while women are competing over them, and then settle down. Omegas can’t form stable relationships. And Zeta males rarely get laid. Most people are betas.
Humans aren’t apes. We have a different mating strategy than them. Women compete for the best man they can get (at a very young age) and then stick with him for life. He sometimes cheats, but not to reproduce. She never cheats. Everyone pairs up. Whenever you see people straying from this paradigm, fucked-upness starts to happen. This is what is happening with women. They are becoming more and more omega. Their clustering around these men is not a normal thing, which is why it is so fucked up in all other ways.
On “Asshole Game”
Being an asshole doesn’t even work in the short term. Sure, alternating hot and cold will sometimes get a woman obsessed (the same way random interval reinforcement gets people hooked on gambling). But, just being a total jackass gets you nowhere. Some “game” guys say different. Based on what they say, they obviously have no real experience with women. What does work, and what these and a lot of inexperienced guys get mixed up with this, is being evil. If you are the type of guy who gets drunk and acts like a jackass in public, expect a lot of dateless nights. But if you are the type of guy who sells drugs, or gets drunk and beats a woman so badly she ends up in the hospital, or you’ve been arrested numerous times, or you are in a gang, these are the things that get you laid. That’s not even close to being a normal thing and there is a very high price for aligning yourself with that intensely negative vibe.
If any guy thinks he is going to be successful with women by being a jackass, think again. Being a jackass is just the other side of the coin of being a wuss. The defining element here is lack of control… lack of power. Yeah, that’ll get you laid… not. This is why it appeals to wusses so much. They think they can get their way by being an obnoxious wuss instead of a snivelling wuss. But they still haven’t expended the effort or is being evil to not be a wuss (i.e. to affect the world rather than being blown around by it). Bad habits are the hallmark of that brand of nonsense.
Note that this is a hell of a lot different than being assertive or even aggressive in the face of a woman’s bullshit. Women will call that behavior (i.e. not giving her her way) asshole behavior, but it’s not. Most people who do this are very nice about it and treat people with love, dignity and respect, when they deserve it. They just don’t take any baloney and they insist on things being on their terms. The typical asshole does none of these things. Instead, they treat women like shit, and allow women to treat them like shit in return. Their behaviour opens the door to the woman’s behaviors. The assertive man does the exact opposite. He neither gives nor allows poor treatment. He never explains and never negotiates either. It’s either his way or the highway. Women say they don’t like that as a way to try and get away with something. But every normal woman loves that about a man.
Nice Guys
One of the things I don’t like about the “niceguy” label is the assumption that niceguys are nice because they are afraid to be otherwise or it is part of approval seeking behavior or that the world revolves around ruthless, brutal behavior of which niceguys are ignorant and victims of.
This just isn’t true.
What is true is that almost anything of any worth has been created by the good people of the world, despite negative influences. Bad people create jack shit. And that goodness flows from strength. It’s the assholes of the world who aren’t doing what they are supposed to be doing that are making life shitty for everyone. I’m not a niceguy because I was born that way. Nor am I a niceguy because of socialization. I’m a niceguy because I specifically choose to be so. It’s part of my method of living a good, decent and satisfying life, because I have noticed that people who are not “nice” simply aren’t able to get that for themselves.
Being an asshole is a weakness that makes a person’s life sad and pathetic… all the while desperately trying to fool themselves and others that it isn’t so.
On Players
To All the Girls I’ve Loved Before
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