Chapter Five: Culture Matters

Part 11: Pushing the Limits of Sexual Fantasies

QUOTE: “…they are so desensitized by their successes in the game that only these girls can fire off the dopamine in their brain and provide the same rush that they used to get from making out with the nerdy girl in the high school library.”

This is very insightful, and something that I think affects us both on an individual level and as a larger society.

The more sexual experiences you have, the more you start to “push limits” in order to achieve the same highs. You constantly have to go further and further. When I first got introduced to girls, simply feeling up her boobs or sticking your hands in each-others pants was pretty damn good. But soon, it wasn’t good unless there was an orgasm involved… and then it was chasing after losing your virginity… and then your first blowjob… then she needs to make you cum in her mouth to fulfill your fantasy… then you move into some light bondage or amateur nude pictures… and so on. As life goes on, you find yourself in sexual situations you never thought you’d be in in your wildest dreams. You first threeway… had one. But it was straight – the girls didn’t kiss or do anything with each other, so now, to get the same thrill…

After a while you can end up being pretty way the hell out there – especially once you realize that women go through crazy binges at various times in life, and it’s your duty as a man to seek out the recent divorcee who’s looking to “explore” a little before she settles down again with another provider – thus, the Christian chick who’s just screaming for someone to woo the wanton slut out of her for six months while she’s going through her Eat, Pray, Love cycle.

Once you know “how it works,” it can be pretty difficult to settle down with a nice, normal chick… especially when you realize that she’s probably willing to become a wanton slut for you too, if you’re in the proper frame to her. The only thing is, the nice girl might still be way back at swallowing cum for the first time… and while teaching a woman how you like to get head is pretty cool too, it’s just not the same thrill as the first time your girlfriend and her best-friend started stroking you off at the same time and led you into the bedroom.

Back in the 1970’s, the APA got into some serious trouble with the homosexual community for suggesting that at least a portion of homosexuals, were likely attracted to it not because they were actually gay, but because they were doms or subs who had deviated so far that they were seeking their “high” in more extreme forms. The gays & lesbians sent death threats and smashed windows, and the APA retracted their studies and grovelled like the PC worms they have become today.

But… what is a cuckolding fetish but an introduction into a dom-sub relationship involving, at least to some degree, bisexuality? And the more extreme they go, the more bisexual they go – this is all part of being a sub in a BDSM relationship anyways – eventually the sub-male is lured into doing something bisexual in order to please his mistress, and it’s still “hetero” because he’s doing something to please someone of the opposite sex rather than being attracted to someone of the same sex – it’s ok to do it, because the dom told you to do it, and brought out the wanton slut in you in order to get an even greater high… and now you’re entering into homosexuality. Why do you see so many men turning gay after 20 years of marriage? Didn’t they get boners when they fathered their children? Why do they become limp-wristed cake decorators after they come out of the closet? This is what the APA was trying to explain.

And as a society, you can see also how perverted our society is becoming simply by looking at how porn has evolved. Back to the cuckolding fetish… it’s now all twisted up into interracial porn – but really? What’s the thrill for someone to jack off to watching a black guy bang a white chick and misgenate your own race? This could only happen in a society that is laden with white guilt, because it’s pretty sick to get aroused by the thought of your race being destroyed. But it’s quite a stretch from the guys who wanted a “hot wife” a decade ago, simply wanting to see their wives behave like a slut, to being cuckolded by someone from a different race, while being denied sexual pleasure yourself. I mean, holy mother of god, what an evolution of sex!

Same thing as the amount of lesbian porn available while at the same time we are in the grip of a feminist death-hold that encourages women to reject men and embrace each-other instead. It’s reflected in our porn what’s going on in society.

Anyway, sorry for yacking off into a tangent – but I think this is something that needs to be explored deeper by those who plan on trying to bang 100+ women in their life rather than get married. In marriage, your sexual experiences are limited to how far you can get your wife to go… but in a serial dating type of lifestyle, you can go quite far with exploring things – exhibitionism fetishes, group sex etc. etc. Get a good long-term FWB who’s just into having sex every month or three and over a couple of years, she’ll do some shit that you’ll never forget… but you’ve got to be right on the ball to make sure it doesn’t ruin you too. For example, lot’s of guys figure the best way to go is to always be a dom – spank her, make her your little bitch and she will love it. Yup, she will – too much – and if you stop spanking her or tying her up or whatever else you do, you’ll lose her instantly – so now you’ve got a sub walking around behind you, klingy as can be, and you wish she’d just behave normally for a while.

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QUOTE:  “It’s a matter of volume. In a society where sex leads inexorably to children, prior to birth control, sex was actually fairly rare. Having sex a couple of times a year risked pregnancy and childbirth.

As anyone who abstains for long period can tell you, ‘vanilla’ sex is pretty damned awesome after a bit of a stretch… perversion is a direct result of an overabundance, and if you have noticed, many of the most perverted monsters in history became so due to an almost unlimited access to sex.

Sex is like alcohol, or virtually any other pleasure… If you do not take it in moderation, it soon comes to dominate your life and requires more and more stimulation to achieve the same high.
make no mistake, sex is a drug… it is a built-in drug, and a reward system for reproduction, but like any drug it can be abused.”

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There is a painting – I think by Titian, but I’ve searched through his paintings and couldn’t find it, so I’m not sure if it is him. In the picture, there is a king seated on his throne, and he is having his wives and concubines brought before him and executed.
Why was he doing this?

Because he was so bored with life, so unable to feel to emotion, that he was using the pain of watching their deaths to create feeling in himself.

When ever I see the guys getting into the cuckold fetish, or agreeing to let their wife have MMF threesomes or such things, I think about that picture. The husband, in order to get a larger rush, is willing to do something abhorrent and in 99% of the cases, extremely damaging to the relationship, to get his rush. MMF/Cuckolding fetishes are BAD. Your submission to another man and letting him dominate your woman, vastly increases her attraction to the other man, while vastly diminishing the husband at the same time.

It works completely opposite of a FFM threesome, where because of social proofing a lot women find their attraction to their husbands increases, because another woman wanting to hump her husband confirms he is high value. FFM works, but MMF does not. The MMF threesome often results in the woman and the outside man having an affair without the husband.

Another thing which I wonder about, since heh, we keep coming back to this cuckold fetish thing, is if it is on the rise because so many average men are, in a sense, cuckolded today.

I mean, even if you marry a woman after she’s had ten partners and remains faithful, you are still in a sense cuckolded, because ten men before you have conquered her, ravaged her, dominated her, made her submit to them, and she was their bitch… for a while… now she’s yours. You will always know, subconsciously, that you aren’t the only guy whose had her up on all fours and banged her senseless while she moaned “harder.”

Then, with the high divorce rate, you actually ARE cuckolded – even if she didn’t cheat on you. I mean, you will still have feelings for your ex, and knowing the next branch/man is now making the love of your life his pin-cushion, brings up a lot of emotional turmoil in men which the men of the past never experienced with lifelong monogamy – today, almost all men experience this joy at one time or another, and lots of men experience it many times in life. I sometimes suspect that has a lot to do with what’s going on too – we are already exposed to mild forms of it.

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